Sunday, May 16, 2010, Central Executive Board of Islamic Da'wah Society of Indonesia (DPP LDII) sent his daiyah and woman-preacher to provide Qur'an learning and religious advice specifically for the stabilization LDII Sidoarjo mothers/woman . The Qur'an learning and religious advice of this consolidation as an effort to nurture the faith and fear to Allah also to improve the good deed of female pilgrims, remembering most of the inhabitants of the hell is the female/women. Word of the Prophet SAW:أُرِيْتُ النَّارَ فَإِذَا أَكْثَرُ أَهْلِهَا النِّسَاءُ...الحدث* رواه البخاري في كتب الإيمان
DPP LDII delegates this time are Mrs. Hj. Suwarti Sucipto, Lamongan birth of 1949 , and Mrs. Hj. Miftachul-ati (47 years). Both are senior LDII's women preacher from Jombang in East Java.
In his advice to LDII Sidoarjo women / mothers and adolescent daughters Mrs. Hj. Suwarti Sucipto give five points::
The LDII mothers and women should be pious woman, by definition;
- Obedient to Allah according to the rules in Al Quran, obey Allah's messenger as indicated in Al Hadith and obedient / submissive, blessings and respect their own husband.
- Orderly, industrious, khusu', tawadhu', mutawari 'in the conduct of daily worship.
- Having such reliable practice, such as; expert sunna prayer, fasting expert, shodakoh experts, specialists night prayer, reading the Quran expert, experts zikir and dua
- Can keep themselves from sin, immoral, violations, away from the haram, can maintain relationships and do not commit adultery.
LDII mothers should be assisted and supported her husband in matters of religion and da'wah even affairs of the work, looking for livelihood.
Rasulullah SAW spoke: Responsible Managing Household
- LDII mothers so devout pilgrims, ta'dhim, blessings, and thank her husband and to serve her husband and her children with the best
- Maintain and use the money and possessions with mujhid-muzhid'
Maintaining the dignity and honor of her husband and secrecy and lack of household
It was narrated that Prophet Ibrahim had asked Ismail to divorce his wife because his wife had told him the lack of the household to the Prophet Ibrahim, her father in-laws.
Natured patience, many succumb, not act boasting and many repented to Allah and ask forgiveness to husband
The Word of God in the Qur'an Surah An Nisa 'verse 34
الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَى بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ فَالصَّالِحَاتُ قَانِتَاتٌ حَافِظَاتٌ لِلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللَّهُ ...الأ ية* القران سورة النساء ٣٤
A man is the leader for his wife because the superiority that God has given him and for what he spent on his wife from his property, as for women who is sholihah is women who are solemn and protect themselves when her husband left, in accordance with the regulations of God. Hadist Rasulullah SAW
إذَا صَلَّتِ الْمَرْأةُ خَمْسَهَا وَصَامَتْ شَهْرَهَا وَحَفِظَتْ فَرجَهَا وَأَطَاعَت زَوْجَهَا قِيْلَ لَهَا ادْخُلِى الْجَنَّةَ مِنْ أَيِّ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ شِئْتِ* رواه أحمد
When a woman has performed on five daily prayers and have been fasting in the month of Ramadan and protect her vagina and obey to her husband is said to her go to Heaven than any door you wish. Ahmad hadith narration
قَلْبٌ شَاكِرٌ وَ لِسَانٌ ذَاكِرٌ وَ زَوْجَةٌ صَالِحَةٌ تُعِيْنُكَ عَلَى أَمْرِ دُنْيَاكَ وَدِيْنِكَ خَيْرُ مَااكْتَنَزَ النَّاسَ* رواه البيهقي
Thankful hearts, and oral remembrance, and a sholihah wife who can help on world affairs and the affairs of your religion is the best human savings. Baihaki hadith naration
وَالْمَرْأَةُ رَاعِيَةٌ عَلَى أَهْلِ بَيْتِ زَوْجَهَا وَوَلَدِهِ وَهِيَ مَسْئُولَةٌ عَنْهُمْ ...الجدث *رواه البخاري في كتب الأحكم
A woman (wife) is a shepherd (responsible) for the family, her husband and her children, later (in Allah) he (the wife) will be held responsible for their (property, her husband and child and family) .. Al-Bukhari hadith naration in Kitabulahkam
أيُّ النِّسَاءِ خَيْرٌ قَالَ الَّتِيْ تَسُرُّهُ إِذَا نَظَرَ وَتُطِيْعُهُ إذَا أَمَرَ وَلاَ تُخَالِفُهُ فِيْ نَفْسِهَا وَمَالِهَا بِمَا يَكْرَهَا* رواه النسائى في كتب النكاح
Which are the best women? The Prophet replied, "The woman who if her husband viewed, could be considered fun, when she's ordered usual obey , and not violate her husband in matters of self and possessions with anything that was hated by her husband (not deviate, not treasonous and not squander their wealth). A naration of Hadiths Nisaa'i Kitabunikah
قَدْ أَفْلَحَ الْمُزْهِدُ الْمُجْهِدُ ...الحدث* رواه احمد
Really lucky people who cut corners and who works hard.Hadist Ahmad naration
